🧠💜 Before We Match You — We Meet You

The Depth, Research & Purpose Behind Lavendare’s Self-Discovery Questionnaire

If you’ve ever filled out a dating profile and felt like you were auditioning for a role that didn’t quite fit — you’re not alone.

Most platforms ask surface-level questions:

“What do you like to do for fun?”

“Are you a dog or cat person?”

“Do you want kids?”

And while those questions might help pick out a dinner spot, they don’t tell you a damn thing about compatibility, emotional safety, or soul alignment.

That’s where Lavendare changes everything.

 Lavendare is for souls ready to find more than just “someone.”

🔍 The Research Runs Deep

The Lavendare questionnaire wasn’t just thrown together for aesthetics. It’s the result of extensive research in:

• Relationship psychology

• Attachment theory

• Values-based alignment strategies

• Energy compatibility studies

• Self-actualization models

• Trauma-informed introspection practices

We curated, tested, refined, and soul-checked every question. Why? Because we believe that the first and most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with your authentic self.

Everything else flows from that.

🧘🏽‍♀️ The First Match Is You

Lavendare’s questionnaire isn’t a personality test. It’s a soul mirror.

Before we introduce you to anyone else, we invite you to take a pause — a breath — and get to know yourself in a deeper way.

• What do you actually need when you feel disconnected?

• What do you consider sacred in a relationship — and what’s non-negotiable?

• Where are you still healing?

• How do you love when you're not afraid?

• What are you building your life around, not just who you want to build it with?

These are the kinds of questions Lavendare asks — because your answers become your compass.

💎 Curated Workshops & Extended Reflections

For those ready to go deeper, we offer workshop-level questionnaires designed to support you through every stage of the self-meeting journey.

You’ll find:

• ✍🏽 The Reflection Lab: Self-paced digital workshops to explore your emotional patterns, boundaries, and vision for love

• 🌀 Group Experiences: Live and virtual gatherings for shared exploration and self-awareness

• 💌 The Archive Room: Exclusive guided journals and exercises created by licensed professionals, intuitive guides, and contributors

• 🫂 The Inner Circle Forum: A private, safe space for members to discuss their experiences, connect over common themes, and support one another through the process

This isn’t about quick matches — this is about conscious magnetism.

👥 For Contributors, Coaches, and Conscious Creators

Lavendare is always growing — and we welcome wisdom from those doing the deep work too.

If you’re:

• A coach with a transformative process

• A healer or guide offering clarity practices

• A writer or speaker with a gift for deep questions

• A relationship or lifestyle expert…

We’re building a contributor circle and marketplace to offer tools, downloads, and group experiences aligned with the Lavendare mission.

Help us build the toolbox for the next era of intentional love.

🛤 This Isn’t the Easy Way — It’s the Real Way

Truth is, Lavendare ain’t for everyone.

If you’re looking to numb, distract, or scroll through filtered perfection — you’ll be disappointed here. But if you’re ready to slow down, get honest, and start choosing differently — we’re ready for you.

We don’t just connect people. We restore them to themselves —so that every connection after that is built on wholeness, not wounds.

💬 Final Word:

This isn’t a dating app. This is a personal transformation tool with the added bonus of connection.

The real magic happens before the match. It happens the moment you sit with yourself, see clearly, and say, "I deserve connection that honors who I truly am."

And we agree.

So come home. To yourself first — and then, to someone who matches the rhythm of your healing, your joy, and your truth.

Welcome to Lavendare!

The journey begins within.